One Year


It’s been one year.

ORPO1 shot me a message warning that an F-21 was down. I immediately said the infantry prayer:

“Oh, shit.”

Alas, it was true. Carroll “Lex” LeFon, Captain, US Navy, Retired, had been killed providing adversary services to his beloved TOPGUN at Naval Air Station Fallon.  The next morning, I wrote this post.

The loss of any man is a tragedy to someone. His family and friends, of course. And God knows, Lex’s family has felt pain and loss.

But Carroll LeFon had started a little blog a while back. Just a few sea stories, and tales of the naval service. And that little blog grew.  More and more sea stories, to be sure. And occasionally, a glimpse into his life. We followed as he was promoted from Commander to Captain, as his son graduated from college, was commissioned in the Navy, and earned his own Wings of Gold.

We followed Lex into retirement, and from thence into the cube farm. We watched him yearn to fly again, and seek solace by signing up with a local flying club, relearning the art of light planes, after a career in heavy metal.

Eventually, the opportunity arose to fly the F-21 Kfir to support the Navy, via a private contractor. Oh, the joy we shared with him! A pretty plane, an important mission, and few aviators better suited to it.

And we were with him every step of the way, loyal readers of his blog. Most of us visited Neptunus Lex daily before even checking our email, and checked in again at days end, in case something interesting had been posted. And unlike virtually every other blog out there, the comment section could be spirited, and yet still civil.

In the days after his death, hundreds of blogs and websites made note of his passing.  I’d  run out of pixels trying to list them all. Suffice to say, the Secretary of the Navy does not note the passing of most retired Captains.

The insight into the Navy, Naval Aviation, and America’s warriors that Lex gave so many Americans was a service that the Navy’s PR shop has tried, at great expense, to do, and yet never done as well as a simple blogger.  His service to his Navy and nation in blogging was great.

I feel an emptiness every day with him gone. He’s still at the top of my bookmarks.  And I know that I wrote better after reading him. His writing, when he first started blogging, was good. But as time went on, it became better and better. After a few years, his prose, his pacing, his vocabulary, and his singular ability to draw a complete mental picture for the reader were unsurpassed anywhere on the internet.  Only a man of great compassion and empathy could write that well.

I’ve several “favorite” Lex posts. Some funny, others tragic.Almost all insightful.

But my personal favorite is this one.

Tonight, I’ll be sipping a Guinness, For Strength! and a Jameson, For Courage.

God Bless you, Lex.

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12 responses to “One Year

  1. David Navarre

    I’ve been a fan of Beliefs: http://www.neptunuslex.com/2003/10/22/beliefs/
    Sad that we no longer have him here.

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  2. Well said brother. Well said. And I’m with David on Lex’s “Beliefs” post, one of the best writings on that topic I’ve ever seen.

    Miss him every day.

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  3. Lex and I had a couple of mild disagreements in that list, but nothing to incite violence. A long ways from it, in fact, and not just because of what he was and I am.

    I’ll be home tonite thinking of Lex. I had a couple people I used to swap emails with regularly while Lex was around, but have stopped for some reason or other.

    Come on out of that cave, VX. We both need it.

    I won’t be too maudlin because I’m too busy teaching and hefting the load of a 4.5 semester hour teaching load in addition to a full time job. Wish I could get to San Dog, but, alas.

    For me Lex was the first blow. A good friend and former neighbor was killed in WV in an auto accident. His wife didn’t find out for a month as she was badly hurt in the accident. So, I didn’t find out until nearly 2 months had passed. I’m home because teh office was closed because of heavy snow, and I’m feeling a bit depressed at the anniversary mark of Lex’s death, and Denny comes up as well. I see both of their faces and wish they could come back for a visit.

    I better get back to work and prep for tomorrow evening’s class.

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  4. Lex was an inspiring man. As X mentioned quite the writer. I seldom commented at his place but read every comment every day.
    He is missed.

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  5. Paul L. Quandt

    Thank you for putting into very nice words what I (and many others) feel.

    Paul

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  6. To Lex and his memory…

    Good night all.

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  7. To Lex, and to life lived to the fullest!

    He led by example, and I will do my imperfact best to live up to his standards. I morn him still, but Life is in the forward direction. I welcome those words from his commenters; I admire Lex’s band of bloggers.

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  8. NaCly Dog

    I like the others posted, a lot. Here is one that traces out the path of Lex, and is a favorite of mine.

    http://www.neptunuslex.com/2008/05/14/ulysses/

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  9. Jeff Gauch

    I’m glad to know I’m not the only one who finds it difficult to delete Neptunus Lex from the bookmark list.

    No Jameson here, there are some unpleasant associations from the visits to the old distillery, but there was a large glass of Tullamore Dew that was distilled when we still had budget surpluses.

    I grieve for the loss of a man who made me want to be a better person. I grieve with the Hobbit, SNO, Biscuit, and Kat for their loss of husband and father. But mostly I am glad to have known him, however remotely, even if it wasn’t for nearly long enough.

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  10. Thank you for the link, Brad, that was a good post. You are not the only one who cannot delete Neptunus Lex from favorites, as it will always belong there.

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  11. It’s been one year already! How time flies. Will be in San Diego later this year, will make sure to drop by the Shakespeare’s Pub to have a pint. I also cannot delete Neptunus Lex from my list of favorite blogs.

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